How Do You Know if a Plastic Surgeon is Taking Advantage of You?

Dr. Eric Barker

April 6, 2025

Dr. Barker earned his medical degree at the Medical College of Wisconsin in Milwaukee, WI. He then completed his combined training in General Surgery and Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery at Rush University Medical Center and John H. Stroger, Jr. (Cook County) Hospital in Chicago, IL. Dr. Barker was able to train under distinguished breast reconstructive surgeon Dr. Anuja Antony, and prestigious cosmetic surgeon Dr. John Q. Cook.

With the rise of social media and patient transparency, more people are sharing their cosmetic surgery experiences, both good and bad. One question that has become increasingly important is: “How do I know if my plastic surgeon is taking advantage of me?”

Whether it’s about pricing, unrealistic expectations, or feeling pressured into a procedure, understanding how to identify red flags is crucial before undergoing cosmetic surgery. Here’s how to make sure you’re choosing a trustworthy plastic surgeon who has your best interests at heart.

Cosmetic Surgery vs. Other Medical Procedures

Plastic surgery is unique compared to other types of surgery. For example, if you’re having an appendix removed, the priority is simply healing without complications – not how the scar looks. In cosmetic plastic surgery, your outcome is both medical and aesthetic – it’s not just about healing, but also about how you feel about your results.

Since patient satisfaction is subjective, it’s important to ensure that your surgeon is honest, realistic, and ethical in their recommendations.

Signs That Your Plastic Surgeon Has Your Best Interests at Heart

A good plastic surgeon will:

  • Listen to your goals rather than pushing procedures on you.
  • Explain realistic expectations – including recovery time, risks, and long-term results.
  • Customize a surgical plan based on your unique anatomy and desires.
  • Ensure you feel heard and comfortable throughout the consultation process.

Red Flags That a Surgeon May Be Taking Advantage of You

  • Pressuring you into surgery or making you feel like you have to get a procedure.
  • Giving unrealistic expectations or promising “perfect” results.
  • Not answering your questions thoroughly or dismissing your concerns.
  • Trying to upsell unnecessary procedures that don’t align with your goals.
  • Making you feel insecure rather than empowering you.

If you experience any of these, it may be a sign to get a second opinion.

How to Avoid Being Taken Advantage of by a Plastic Surgeon

1. Get Multiple Consultations

✔ Meeting with at least two or three plastic surgeons can help you compare approaches, pricing, and overall comfort level.

2. Pay Attention to How You Feel

✔ Do you feel heard, respected, and informed?
✔ Does the surgeon explain everything clearly and set realistic expectations?
✔ Do you feel pressured or rushed?

3. Research the Surgeon’s Credentials & Experience

✔ Are they a trained Plastic and Reconstructive surgeon specializing in cosmetic plastic surgery?
✔ Do they have before-and-after photos of previous patients for the procedure(s) your interested in?
✔ What do patient reviews say about their communication and results?

Final Thoughts: Trust Your Instincts

When asking, “How do I know if my plastic surgeon is taking advantage of me?”—the most important thing is how you feel throughout the process.

A trustworthy plastic surgeon will:

  • Educate you on all aspects of the procedure.
  • Respect your goals, budget, and comfort level.
  • Allow you to make an informed decision without pressure.

If you ever feel uneasy, seek more consultations until you find a surgeon who makes you feel confident and empowered in your decision.

At Peak Plastic Surgery, we believe in honesty, transparency, and patient-centered care. If you have questions or need guidance, I’d be happy to help.

Contact us today to schedule a consultation!